The
following text was written by a very good friend of mine – he actually
writes about sex and romance for women for a living, and he’s also one
of the best I’ve seen when it comes to word-smithing written
communication… in a way that gets females first curious, then interested, next aroused and finally horny.This is the message:
“I know you're already interested, I am too, and I would like us to get to know each other in person rather than through text. If I'm wrong about that, and I doubt it, then carry on and may you have a wonderful life. 4pm Friday, Starbucks.”Do you remember that we talked about demonstrating that you’re perfectly willing to walk away from a situation? We discussed this in detail in the articles about the perfect Hollywood movie seductions.
My friend sandwiches this little demonstration of his detachment between very strong commands for her to move things forward with him.
Of course this text only makes sense if you actually DID get her interested in you previously, and when she’s only being non-responsive now because it’s been a while, or because something else has come up in her life.
If she was never keen on you to begin with, this message will just look silly.
If you had some chemistry though, this text can be VERY powerful. Let’s break it down into its elements:
- He calls out her interest, without being afraid to admit his own, and then tells her what to do (taking the lead again).
- Then he shows her that despite all of the above it’s no big deal.
- Finally he nails her with a specific “call-to-action”, as marketers call it – a very specific time and place to meet up.
You don’t need to copy this text word by word obviously when you text girls, but if you can just learn something about the frame of mind it was written from, that alone will do wonders for you.
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